Can the drum beats bring joy to the elders in Borneo!

I am still trying to figure out of how to bring the sound of the drums beats to the elders in Borneo!...I know there are many ways to do it but I really what the tranquility of of the drums beats to bring peaceful to them!

What will you say...?

An 85 year old woman asked me this question, "Why do I have to suffer in this type of situation?" I wondered what she was talking about?" Therefore I said to her, "Odu what are you trying to say?"
"I am alone and I seldom see my own children and grand children," she conluded! This statement made me ponder until today.