Wednesday, March 18, 2009

A cure of loneliness


A cure for loneliness
Dolgor’s face lights up as a group of visitors enter her ger. At 80, with no family nearby, she suffers from acute loneliness. Or at least she used to, before Munkhtuya, a Red Cross volunteer from Ulaan Baatar, began visiting her regularly.
Dolgor calls Munkhtuya her ‘daughter’ and is very close to her. “She is so good to me,” Dolgor enthuses. “I used to have no company at all, but now I am so happy. Munkhtuya visits me every week and brings me so many things.”
Mongolian Red Cross
When migration to the city takes place, traditional family networks that would act as a safety net are disrupted and the Mongolian Red Cross steps in to fill the gap, particularly with assistance to vulnerable elderly people.
Dolgor is a good example of this. She had two children; one passed away and the other lives far away in the countryside. The local Red Cross branch wanted to support Dolgor, but it took a long time to track her down because she was constantly being forced to move.
This is common in Mongolia, where the law can make it difficult to establish land ownership and the most vulnerable often don’t possess the necessary knowledge to secure the land they are entitled to.
Prize delicacy
Dolgor is over the moon to be visited and she thrives on the company. She whispers excitedly to her ‘daughter’: “What should I talk about? Maybe they would like something to eat?”
Suddenly she remembers a prize delicacy, a boiled lamb’s head prepared earlier, which she enthusiastically offers to her guests. Nothing goes to waste in Mongolia, where food prices have more than doubled in the past year.

...I have a story to tell...


Aging gracefully group met today at 3.00 pm. There were 12 elderly individuals (ages 75- 100) who attended this one hour session.


The topic of discussion was Picture This.


Purpose:

1. To develop a climate for group interaction through self-disclosure.

2. To recognize the impact of positive life experiences.


Materials:

One photocpy of the illustration for each member, pencils, pens, markers, or crayons.


The outcomes with this session was very encouraging.

Members were taking turn to tell their own stories. They even describes their feelings about the depicted scenes and how these and other memorable moment have had significant impact on their lives.


Some words form the participants:

"It gives me the sense of feeling acceptance because nobody judges me of my weakness."

"Now, I understand the power of sharing and listening to others' experiences."

"Thank you for having this "down to earth" session, it makes me "alive as I recalled my own life."

"Each person is unique and the each person's story is powerful."

"When will be the next session, I enjoy this it, it empowers me to appreciate my daily life."

"I always enjoy and love to share and listen to others' experiences.


Monday, March 16, 2009

Sacred hands.......of the elderly individuals...

WHAT ARE THE FINGERS SAYING?



AGING GRACEFULLY



POTENTIALITIES WITH THE HANDS








GENTLE HAND BEATING THE DRUM!










counting your blessings






The following persons were randomly asked to share one of the many blessings of life.


"It is wonderful to have time to pray."

"Everything here is a blessing I thank God every night for landing me here."

"Living at the Motherhouse."

"When my sister dies, I was immersely blessed by the overflowing sympathy, love and support from my Sisters."

"Fortunate to be here at Mercy and for my wonderful family."

"The fact that I'spoiled rotten and I love to be spoiled."

"The wonderful care I get."

""Grateful to be restored to health and be back to my ministry here at Mercy."

"I have a job in a safe and nice place to work."

"God's love, good health."

"Our newly renovated space, with gratitude to all responsible."

"Having a job in place with a homey atmosphere and people."

"The freedom to procalim and share my faith in Jesus Christ in an atmosphere of understanding and support."

Thursday, March 12, 2009

It is never too late for the elderly individuals to enjoy!

Just gathering for chit-chat can alos help the elderly to elevate their loneliness.
A blessing this elderly woman is still capable to lift her hands.

Dancing can be a joyful way for the elderly indidviduals to interact and still feel strong and healthy.








Another way how an elderly can continue to use his/her cognitive ability is by learning the computer and learning how to utilize the internet.




Whatever forms of slow and gentle exercises are really good for elderly too.


Tai-Chi is one of the many activities.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Dr.Rico in Borneo




Dr. Rico (MD) and I during our visit to Kinabalu National Park, Sabah Borneo.

...a joy to be treated as human...


What a blessinng for this elderly woman, she must be joyful because she is well treated by another human being.
Let us not forget about the value of "Filial Piety?